of course this would happen to me...

oh yes. a story to start out my terrible blogging habit... or lack of blogging. so i got approached for the first time in new york. i'm at work, and there's this guy that works at an audio post house that we we work along with. he is a PA there and he was dropping off some elements for us to work with. he's super hot with beautiful eyes, and surprisingly he looked back at me several times as he was leaving. he came back later on the day to introduce himself and to give me his phone number. this was like 4 weeks ago. since then, we have been trying to hang out, but hasn't happened cause of our schedules and sickness. we have talked on the phone a bit, but that's it. i call him 3 nights ago seeing if we were going to meet up after work for a cup of coffee like we were trying to do earlier in the week. i left a voicemail saying since he doesn't get out of work until 8 and he has a 2 hour commute back home, we can just wait until the weekend to hang out. pause. so i get this phone call from a phone number i don't recognize, and i don't answer cause it would waste my minutes. i get a voicemail from a girl named ryan saying that she had an important question for me. i have no idea who this chick is. the next afternoon, i get a phone call from the same number. i answer it this time and it's this girl again. "hi, stephanie? my name is ryan. you don't know me, but i think you met my boyfriend." turns out this guy has a girlfriend, and she was calling me to get some info on her cheating boyfriend. "have you guys hung out at all?" no. "do you talk on the phone a lot?" no. "he didn't tell you he had a girlfriend?" no. that didn't come up in conversation. apparently he has a 2 hour commute to home, and she knows this because he LIVES with her. aaaannnnddd... i'm gay. this is nuts. funny. but nuts. this happens in the movies. not in real life. oh... except in MY real life. people are like... shen. you have terrible luck. only to you could this happen. woo hoooO!! hooray for funny stories. i almost became a homewrecker. but not an offensive deliberate homewrecker. score one for the man. shen... score still zero.